Here’s to the Mama’s

It’s Mother’s Day 2018 and here’s a shout out to all the Mama’s that make the world go round.

Here’s to the Mama’s that ever decided to have a baby. There is nothing normal or easy about carrying a large bowling ball – and then delivering it – from your human body. This whole motherhood thing started out this side of crazy and it just keeps delivering.

Here’s to the Mama’s that have their hearts bursting with love. When their sweet young children make your heart ache with their open arms and innocent eyes.

Here’s to the Mama’s that have sullen teenagers. Who forget how to hug. Or answer questions beyond a syllable or two. You Mama’s rock.

Here’s to the Mama’s that see the best in their kids. And light up at their gifts and encourage, encourage them to pursue their dreams.

To those who see the worst in their kids too  – and keep pushing, pushing their kids to be their best self, learn from their mistakes, and make the world a better place.

Here’s to the Mama’s that see the best and the worst, and love it all regardless.

Here’s to the Mama’s that celebrate the wins and soak up the tears from the losses.

Who are the softest shoulders to hug, the best listeners when the chips are really down, and the best option when you need to be your most vulnerable self.

Here’s to the Mama’s with kids who have needs that are special – and who see their unique gifts to the world. With the utmost of love and patience. You, Mama’s, are my heroes.

Here’s to the Mama’s that sacrifice most of their free hours to drive, drive, drive. To school. To friends. To activities, activities, activities. Drive, drive, drive. No awards here, but wow, there really should be.

Here’s to the Mama’s and their devoted spots on the bleachers, at the baseball and soccer fields, basketball and volleyball courts, at the track and more. Rain, wind, or shine – you Mama’s cheer your precious athletes on, regardless of talent or skill.

Here’s to the Mama’s that encourage other gifts – singing, acting, creating, computing – whatever it may be, most of the time there is a strong Mama behind it.

Here’s to the Mama’s that are so tired! Because you never get enough sleep. You are the soother of nightmares, the cuddler extraordinaire, the custodian of nighttime barfs,  smoother of hair, turner of pillows, and house story teller/singer.

Here’s to the list makers, the worriers, the memory makers, the curfew keepers, and the rule setters. Mama’s keep lists like no other – both physical and mental, and their brains are always full, full, full of To-Do’s.

Here’s to the meal makers, the snack providers, and the endless lunches. Oh the endless lunches! Whether healthy cuisine or endless pasta or PB&J’s, this one also deserves an award.

Here’s to the Mama’s who support each other. Without judgement. With support, with laughs, and endless appreciation.

Here’s to the Mama’s who have seen every dream come true. And even more to the Mama’s who have had their hearts broken.

On this Mother’s Day, here’s to all who mother or have mothered. It’s the world’s most rewarding – yet hardest. job.

And I am so very grateful for my three children, who made me a mom. And for the village around me who helps my world go round.

And also, especially, for my own mom. Who taught me everything I could ever hope to know about being a mom. Balancing instruction with education. Cultivating a work ethic with a spirit of endless fun. The importance of being kind. Generous. And a good person to all. Gratitude for your gifts. And perseverance through your trials. Thank you, mom. I love you.

And for the other mama’s this Mother’s Day – I hope you had an amazing day.